
“Cherish” is the theme for this year’s Vesak.
Those who attended the Annual General Meeting on April 4, would have witnessed the official launch by our Spiritual Master and hopefully also remembered Her words reminding us to work together and cherish.
So what do we cherish again? How do we do it? Each of us have our own interpretation of what to cherish and how to cherish. Some of our fellow companions on this spiritual path interpret it this way:
“Cherish… the Moment We Have Together – Work Harmoniously, Forgiving, With One Heart & One Same Goal!”
Karen Tee
“Together We Create (One Heart), Together We Accomplish (One Heart), Together We Cherish (One Heart)”
Jeffrey Chew
“Taking things for granted is the most common mistake we make in life. It is only when we lose something or someone that we learn to cherish.”
Alice Chua.
“”Cherish” to me means we love and treasure our family, relatives and good and faithful friends wholeheartedly, doing things for them without expecting anything in return. We should cherish what we have as we come here with nothing and leave with nothing.”
Sally Chiok
Cherishment comes at many levels, it is just as complex as “one heart”. Cherishing an inanimate is pretty straightforward. Imagine your favorite book – how much you care for it, how much effort you put into making sure it stays with you.
But when it comes to people and relationship, cherishing them takes a lot more effort. Unlike inanimate objects, humans expect something from relationships. These expectations become the stumbling block. When we are able to put aside our expectations and simply accept the nature of the relationship, and the person for who they are, perhaps then we begin to learn to appreciate and cherish.
All relationships – be it spousal, siblings, friends or spiritual companionships, are not discrete or absolute. Just like the horizon is an imaginary line –there is no line that separates what is one’s and what is the other’s in any relationship. The sky and the earth are one with the other – there isn’t a place where one starts and the other ends. There is no beginning nor ending.
When we beginning to see relationships as a manifestation of oneself onto another, and likewise the other onto oneself, then there will be no expectations nor pride and cherishing becomes easier.
Master puts it in another way:
“Cherish stems from the heart and revolves around the heart. Is that heart pure and focused to be worth cherishing?”
Well, Vesak is some 30 days away. As before, lets take this time to reflect on cherishing not just the inanimate but your family, your friends, your workmates and your fellow spiritual companions, Most importantly learn to cherish the present moment as you begin to prepare your body, mind and spirit for Vesak.
With metta,
Liang